#2 Accessorize, to reach success learn to accessorize. Bring your details to the front
It is often times in life we set goals for ourselves and we are doomed even before we set out to accomplish those goals. I personally think that in order to reach any goal you must be first willing to go over and beyond the call of duty. If you read any article about someone great or someone that has received a promotion or has great favor you will notice that, the individual does something that sticks out to others. When dressing for work I like to put on my slacks, a dress shirt, and a necktie or bow tie, and hankie. I normally try to insure that my shoes complement my entire ensemble rather than just a pair of shoes. These things are important to me because they are my accessories. It’s not required for me to dress for work matter of fact my company provides us with uniforms at no cost to us. However I know that I am not there to stay but I am there to learn share and move on. I am there to reach a goal. It is not my goal to always fit in and do just enough. But it’s my goals to go over and beyond the call of duty. When you choose your garments for work, play and or recreational it's not required to press your clothes nor try and find the matching shoes, belt and shirt/blouse how ever these are things that we are taught from a child up. Well everyone knows to press their shirt everyone knows to place their shirts in their pants. We all know if you want to be rebellious you can leave your shirt out. But how does that set you apart from others. How do these things assist you in reaching your new set goal?
When we hear the term accessories we normally think about purses, earrings, belts, chains and or watches or bracelets. But I want to introduce a new accessory this accessory is your pillars of success. The accessory to add is more of a moral accessory. Why not wake up an hour early then what you are doing right now and devote some time to prayer and or meditation. Why not accessorize your life by adding a new word to your vocabulary daily. What about accessorizing your life by reading four pages daily of professional literature. By adding moral and or mental accessories in your life you are now one step closer to reaching your set goal and or level of success. You have made a small change that leads to a bigger change which allows you to transition in the process of obtaining your goal. A goal is just what it is a set level however what inspires you to maintain your goal after reaching it. It is the foundation of your accessories.
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Showing posts with label I am a leader. Show all posts
Thursday, April 30, 2009
#1 30 day work out plan
#1 In order to tear down walls of failure we must first rid our selves of the bricks of depression. Friends that do not believe are ur doom!
In our ever changing world or society there is one thing that remains a constant. Most people desire to be like, loved and or appreciated. Because of fear of not being accepted many people settle for less then. Remember the day you settle is the day you admit that you are less then. Many times we have people in our lives that we should have been rid ourselves of. These people are nothing but stumbling blocks and or leaks in our plumbing. These people can range from any relationship. They can be mother, father, sister, brother, aunt, uncles, best friend from the age of nine. However they can still be a hindrance. The problem with long term friendship is irrational decisions. We are afraid of hurting someone feelings or we are afraid of what they will think of us there for we are silent at times when we need to speak out. In order for you to be the best you possible or reach your ultimate level of success you must do an evaluation of where you are and where you are going. You must look at the desired life style and or life circle and see who fits in to that circle with you. You must not be afraid of making tuff decision or you will never reach your ultimate goal. Tuff decision can range from any level of high or low, i.e. white or wheat bread, study or party, cut friendship or retain friendship. During your thirty days to a better you I challenge you to postpone your old friends and attempt to acquire new friendship each day. While acquiring new friendship you must ask some important questions such as where said friend is and where said friend is going. You must ask what do this friend have that you want and do this friend have the life style you wish to have. No offense to anyone but you do not go to a Jim and say I want to lose weight and get a 300 over weight person to train you, but you find someone that looks in the desired shape and you go to them for tutelage. So in our success we must do the same thing. If my credit score is weak Imam find someone that is doing well and has an honorable credit score and name and start to mimic the things he or she does. I do not care if they are older than me or younger I just care that they are the vision of my ultimate outcome.
Success is not something given or promised, it's a way of life that is challanged daily. A day of good will be spoken for moments, but a moment of evill will be the ruins of life. Tune it tomorrow for part two.
In our ever changing world or society there is one thing that remains a constant. Most people desire to be like, loved and or appreciated. Because of fear of not being accepted many people settle for less then. Remember the day you settle is the day you admit that you are less then. Many times we have people in our lives that we should have been rid ourselves of. These people are nothing but stumbling blocks and or leaks in our plumbing. These people can range from any relationship. They can be mother, father, sister, brother, aunt, uncles, best friend from the age of nine. However they can still be a hindrance. The problem with long term friendship is irrational decisions. We are afraid of hurting someone feelings or we are afraid of what they will think of us there for we are silent at times when we need to speak out. In order for you to be the best you possible or reach your ultimate level of success you must do an evaluation of where you are and where you are going. You must look at the desired life style and or life circle and see who fits in to that circle with you. You must not be afraid of making tuff decision or you will never reach your ultimate goal. Tuff decision can range from any level of high or low, i.e. white or wheat bread, study or party, cut friendship or retain friendship. During your thirty days to a better you I challenge you to postpone your old friends and attempt to acquire new friendship each day. While acquiring new friendship you must ask some important questions such as where said friend is and where said friend is going. You must ask what do this friend have that you want and do this friend have the life style you wish to have. No offense to anyone but you do not go to a Jim and say I want to lose weight and get a 300 over weight person to train you, but you find someone that looks in the desired shape and you go to them for tutelage. So in our success we must do the same thing. If my credit score is weak Imam find someone that is doing well and has an honorable credit score and name and start to mimic the things he or she does. I do not care if they are older than me or younger I just care that they are the vision of my ultimate outcome.
Success is not something given or promised, it's a way of life that is challanged daily. A day of good will be spoken for moments, but a moment of evill will be the ruins of life. Tune it tomorrow for part two.
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Just a nother Cold Day in VA
So it's about 9:01 am 6:01 for those on the west coast and I am sitting in side of the dealership, where I purchased my car. I am here to get an Oil Change for my father's truck. How ever by the looks of things it does not look as if he will be getting that oil change today. I have to be to work by 12:15 for my 12:30 shift, and the shop is talking about not having the car ready till maybe 12:00. I honestly do not think that will work.
I am trying to insure I am to work on time. You know how that goes when you are always trying to do things for every one. Over the last couple of weeks I have been making a horrible impression on my new store. I have been late at least twice a week. The sad part about that is that my store is only ten minutes away from my home. It's all well I have to buckle up and do what it do.
That brings me to my Blog topic of today. How to be a leader while yet f0llowing. Briefly in my last Blog I spoke on being successful and what constitutes as success. In life at some point and time we are all asked and (or) placed in a leadership role. It can be for any number of reasons weather to watch our little sister or cousin, asked to watch the class while the teacher steps out . Or it could just be some task at work or any recreational activities that we have been placed in charge of.
As a christian I take being a leader very seriously. I understand that it's not a title that makes me a leader but it is merely the confession of my faith that puts me in a position of leadership. By saying I am a christian by going to church and or singing my gospel albums I invite on lookers to view my life as an example.
I find it amusing when I hear people say they do not like going to church because of hypocrites because nine times out of ten the church members are doing the same thing as they are. I think to my self well if that is the case then what's the big deal we all in the same boat.
The truth is we have all sinned and come short of the glory of God Romans 3:23-24
but the good news is we are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. In order for it to to make sense we must understand at one point and time we are sinners that need to be redeemed, and that is where the Lord Jesus Christ comes in.
I John 1:8 tells us If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.
So that being said 4How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?
So you see we are all leaders weather it is by working on our personal life or by encouraging others simply by reminding one another of Gods word.
Being a saved or being a leader is not a poof on the spot thing. It's a constant job that can never be fully taut but must be fully learned.
A relationship with Christ or with life is not determined but others but it's determined by you.
So how do you be a leader why yet following? Well first you must learn how to accept responsibility for your own actions. You must then find out what does your name mean to you, set your own limits and borders. You must decided that no matter what life holds in its hands you are going to do you. You must have tenacity a drive that pushes you in the right directions. But most importantly in so uncertain terms will you allow others failures to be your flaws.
I am trying to insure I am to work on time. You know how that goes when you are always trying to do things for every one. Over the last couple of weeks I have been making a horrible impression on my new store. I have been late at least twice a week. The sad part about that is that my store is only ten minutes away from my home. It's all well I have to buckle up and do what it do.
That brings me to my Blog topic of today. How to be a leader while yet f0llowing. Briefly in my last Blog I spoke on being successful and what constitutes as success. In life at some point and time we are all asked and (or) placed in a leadership role. It can be for any number of reasons weather to watch our little sister or cousin, asked to watch the class while the teacher steps out . Or it could just be some task at work or any recreational activities that we have been placed in charge of.
As a christian I take being a leader very seriously. I understand that it's not a title that makes me a leader but it is merely the confession of my faith that puts me in a position of leadership. By saying I am a christian by going to church and or singing my gospel albums I invite on lookers to view my life as an example.
I find it amusing when I hear people say they do not like going to church because of hypocrites because nine times out of ten the church members are doing the same thing as they are. I think to my self well if that is the case then what's the big deal we all in the same boat.
The truth is we have all sinned and come short of the glory of God Romans 3:23-24
but the good news is we are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. In order for it to to make sense we must understand at one point and time we are sinners that need to be redeemed, and that is where the Lord Jesus Christ comes in.
I John 1:8 tells us If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.
So that being said 4How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?
So you see we are all leaders weather it is by working on our personal life or by encouraging others simply by reminding one another of Gods word.
Being a saved or being a leader is not a poof on the spot thing. It's a constant job that can never be fully taut but must be fully learned.
A relationship with Christ or with life is not determined but others but it's determined by you.
So how do you be a leader why yet following? Well first you must learn how to accept responsibility for your own actions. You must then find out what does your name mean to you, set your own limits and borders. You must decided that no matter what life holds in its hands you are going to do you. You must have tenacity a drive that pushes you in the right directions. But most importantly in so uncertain terms will you allow others failures to be your flaws.
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