Who is responsible?

Good morning all, I should be sleep but I just got off the phone. I was speaking with a friend of mine and we was talking about her expectations with in the next couple of months. I told her she need to make sure she get that child support situated, but she told me she does not believe in it. I want to know who is responsible, alto of young ladies now are more independent and not relying on the government to govern their baby daddy. Allot of young ladies feel that if the man do not want to take care of their children then so be it. But I wan to know who then is responsible?Why is it that the men are no longer held responsible for their seeds, It was never intended for females to bare the pain alone do not know believe God wanted us to spread the joy and run. In Hebrew days a man was allotted how ever many wives he could afford not how ever women he could hit and quit.Why have our culture change so dramatically that its now OK if a man leaves. and society is use to it. I know I am a man but I need to know. All my life I have tried to make sure I did not offend any one, or belittle my morals, So I just need some help whats really good leave me a note send me a email write me a poem. Give me a call do something cause I am confused